on life and love

now, im one of those people who like having a lot of friends around, friends who love you for who you are and arent afraid of being themselves around you. unfortunately, a majority of my girlfriends are either in a relationship or busy focusing on their careers which leaves no time for slumber parties or late night talkathons. but dont get me wrong, i love them with all my heart but it seems like these days they just dont have enough time for me. oh well.....


anyways, lets go to the topic of love. as a teenager, ive noticed that the word "love" is not being used like it did back in the good old days. like for example, a couple say "i love you" to each other but the next day they break up. love is eternal, when you love somebody, it has to be with feeling and it has to last forever. love is not just a one-day thing.ive experienced my fair share of heartbreaks so my advice is, never be too serious about relationships or else youll regret it.


the different types of love.


1.crush- this is the stage wherein a person is attracted to another person but only for a short period of time.


2. infatuation- this is the stage wherein you become obsessed with someone and you constantlywant to know where that person is. this is also known as the stalker stage, the puppy love stage, and the obsessed stage. this is the stage wherein you think you love someone but you know nothing about it. most teenagers are at this stage and even some celebrities ehem*kardashian*


3. first love or love at first sight- this is wherein you see a person and you instantly become attracted to them. studies show that only 5% of these people end up being together. if you are, however, one of these then i salute you. 


4. in love- this is the "soulmate stage". here is where people who truly are in love, have the same common interests, and understand each other end up. this is the most beautiful kind of love because and only because this is the stage wherein the two are so meant for each other and they understand each other despite their flaws. people who are at this stage i applaud you. it is here where you will understand the true meaning of love.


5. fake love- i have been in this stage countless times before. it is where a person uses you for their own benefit while making you believe that they truly love you. this is why, people of the universe, you should never be fooled by love.


and last but not the least, 




6. friendzone- considered as the most hurtful, it is wherein you confess your unding love for someone but that person wants to "only be friends" not onl is it humiliating but by doing so you risk your friendship in the hope for something more but you get less than what you started with.


love is such a complex thing to think about but to all the teenagers out there i say to hell were love! were young we can worry about that later when we get older. remember youre onloung once. live. laugh. love. dream. explore.


(c)kat:)